The theory of the unwanted fork

I was home to visit my parents and I noticed something...
Whenever I'm in a hurry and I try to fish for a spoon from where the cutlery is stored, I fish out a fork almost always consistently, relate?😂.
I call that, the 'theory of the unwanted fork' in this theory,the essence is, if you pursue something aggressively and impatiently , you will get something else entirely, a fork if you will...
The most beautiful things in life are pursued with patience,making haste slowly if you will...
be it love,fulfillment,joy and happiness,money,
You get the gist.
So the next time you are rushing trying to force your lethargic boyfriend to propose,or your crush to text you back, or your ministry to kick off, or your business to make you millions, or .... whatever
Remember the theory of the unwanted fork - if you fish aggressively and impatiently for a spoon, you'll fork out a fork